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How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 05:45

How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

I feel Forgiveness is not about letting someone off the hook it is about releasing yourself from the chains of resentment.

As ,Seneca very rightly told us

but

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⭐ 'The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

As for cutting ties, I always remind myself that it is wise to assess the situation and act according to reason, not emotion.

The Stoics would say that we cannot control the actions of others,

My wife admitted to cheating on me with a married man. Should I tell this man and his wife that I know?

👉🔹If a relationship no longer contributes to your growth or inner tranquility, you are clear that the act on other,s part was not inadvertant instead intentional then it is perfectly rational to step away.

Ultimately, as Marcus Aurelius said,

we can control our response. Holding onto anger only harms you, so forgiveness becomes an act of reclaiming your own peace.

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Choose to surround yourself with peace, not pain, and trust that the right relationships will align with your path.

You are not abandoning anyone you’ are simply protecting your own harmony.

Be blessed

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

You can forgive and for self care can always cut ties.

Your act of abondening is purely self care and forgiving in this case doesn't mean remaining in contact too.